James Stranko: Dear Canada, Americans still love you but please stop insulting us - National Post

Flagbearers stand for the anthems before a Toronto FC game at BMO Field in Toronto on Sept. 9. Photo by Vaughn Ridley/Getty ImagesArticle contentToronto FC fans recently booed the American national anthem, the same way Canadians across the country have done countless times over the past 18 months. We get it, you’re mad.

But consider this week, when the Barenaked Ladies will perform “O Canada” at the Buffalo Bills home opener. In contrast, I can confidently predict that the crowd will sing along and erupt in cheers. Unlike Canadians, Americans don’t currently boo Canada’s national anthem or angle a political dig into a conversation about the weather. Many Canadians do this, and for the ones who do, it’s sort of all they do these days.

As an American who is a frequent visitor (I estimate about 40 trips to seven provinces) and longtime observer of Canada-U.S. relations, I am deeply concerned about the long-term social effects of the current skirmish between our two countries. What might surprise you is that I’m much more concerned for you than I am for us.

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Most Americans have historically spent little time thinking about Canada and, when they do, it’s usually warm and fuzzy feelings. That’s why I’m worried that the feel-good elbowing up that’s coming from Canada is beginning to sour the tremendous amount of goodwill Canadians receive in America, further aggravating a bad situation for Canada.

When I recently shared some of these feelings in a Wall Street Journal op-ed, I unsurprisingly unchained torrents of finger-wagging from Canadians. The calumny followed a few predictable lines of argument. The first, and my least favourite, was, “Foreigners, and particularly Americans, don’t have a right to have critical views of Canada.”

The second, “This man is an example of how bad the American education system is,” was irrelevant to the argument and an unnecessarily ad hominem. And then there was my personal favourite: “These criticisms are trite,” which I take as a compliment because it means they’re still true.

Strangely enough, despite the torrent of negativity from Canadians commenting on the article, I received a larger amount of positive messages from Canadians sent to me through private channels. That leads me to believe that many Canadians are being forced into self-censorship and public-facing groupthink on the topic, which, like we’ve seen in many U.S. culture war debates, is immensely corrosive to the body politic and civil discourse.